Recently my husband and I took the family on vacation. We were feeling desperate for vacation. We pictured blue skies, sunshine, and the two of us, alone, on a secluded island with some good books. Well, not exactly, but I think you get the gist.
We were quickly reminded that we had four children who were on vacation too.
"What are we doing today?"
"Can we go swimming?"
"I'm hungry."
"I'm bored."
Ugh... so much for vacation, at least that's what part of me thought.
Family vacations can be tough, especially if we have the wrong expectations.
Here are some things to consider to help make the best of your family vacation:
#1 A family vacation is just that.... a FAMILY vacation. It's not a second or third or whatever number honeymoon for you and the hubby. Remember that you have people with you who have needs and desires of their own.
#2 You are building memories for your children and for your family! Family vacations are etched into the fiber of our beings. I remember camping with my family, taking a long tour out West to see the Grand Canyon, the Badlands, the Painted Desert, and other wonderful attractions, seeing Niagara Falls, and more! Family vacations strengthen bonds and create memories.
#3 Try to get some alone time, by yourself or with your husband. Put a good movie on for the kids. Take turns with your hubby, watching the kids for each other so you can have some quiet or alone time. Go to bed later than the children. Think of ways you can regroup personally and also as a couple.
#4 Try to consider everyone's desires when planning events. Sometimes it will require sacrifice for some people. That's ok. Reward them with something they want to do later. Make the vacation pleasant for everyone.
#5 Have fun! Even if the vacation is different than you expected. Do your best to relax and enjoy yourself.
Good post, Lis. Love ya. :-)
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