"Wounds"

Proverbs 27:6

Faithful are the wounds of a friend,

But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

I have been thinking about this verse lately. Within the past several months, I have been seeking counsel and support from my friends regarding what God is doing in my life. Yes, he is stretching me. Sometimes my friends give me counsel that is hard to hear. It is not easy to embrace, even though it is right. Sometimes it even seems so foreign to my emotions, yet I am reminded by God's Word that the wounds of a friend are "faithful". They are meant to do God's work in us. The part I found even more interesting as I looked up this verse is the great relevance of the contextual verses.

Proverbs 27:5

Open rebuke is better than love carefully concealed.

and

Proverbs 27:7

A satisfied soul loathes the honeycomb,

but to a hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.

It is a blessing to have friends and family who can gently encourage you in the right way and sometimes, yes, "wound" you. They will touch the very depths of your heart and sometimes make you feel pain - pain over the way you feel, the way you act, and the struggles you bear. The Bible shows us that open rebuke from our loved ones is a blessing and that if we want to keep a spiritual hunger, we will swallow the "bitter things". I'm praying for this in my life.

Blessings,

Lisa

Guest Blog Post - "The Manna Principle"

Boy, do I need some of that chicken soup right now! I caught the illness my sons had and am now struggling to conquer the flu. While I'm down and out for a bit, I thought you might like to read a great post on my friend's blog, "Three and Me". (Thanks, Leslie!) Just click and hop on over! It's about decluttering and trusting God to provide.

The Manna Principle

Hoping your family is healthy!

Lisa

Savory Chicken Soup!

Yesterday I made homemade chicken soup for dinner. (It's a good thing since sickness is in my house!) This is my own recipe, and it is very yummy (imho). I hope you like it!

This photo shows some of the soup gone already. The recipe makes a generous amount!

Savory Chicken Soup

Roaster Chicken

Bay Leaf

Onion, Garlic, Celery, Carrots

Pasta Noodles

Salt and Pepper

Parsley
Wash and place a roaster chicken in a 6 qt. pot. Cover with coarse salt and peppercorns (or regular salt and pepper will do) and fill water almost to top to cover chicken. Cut onion, 2 cloves of garlic, carrots, and celery into large chunks and add to pot. Bring water to a boil and simmer for about 2 hours. By this time, the chicken is ready to fall off the bone! Strain the broth (I do this into another pot) and discard all vegs. Let chicken cool for a bit and then pull off all of the meat. Put broth back in large pot with HALF of the chicken and add two or three sliced carrots. Boil for a few minutes and then add about half a box of your favorite chicken soup pasta noodles. Cook until noodles are done. Flavor with salt, pepper, and parsley flakes. Taste and season to liking!

(NOTE: You can use the other half of the chicken for the next night's meal). ;-)

YUMMY!

Enjoy your soup!
Lisa

(If you try making it, post a comment and let me know how you like it).

Quote of the Day

Currently I am reading snippets from Charlotte Masons' The Original Homeschooling Series (as listed and linked in my sidebar). In Volume 4, Ourselves, she says,

The nature of Generosity is to bring forth, to give, always at the cost of personal suffering or deprivation, little or great.

Lord, make me generous.

Blessings,

Lisa

Soccer Finale!

Today is my son's last soccer game. Being the coach's wife, I feel a need in my heart to give the boys an end of the season "gift". God always helps me bump into something. When I was at Walmart browsing the candy aisle the other day, I found the GIANT size candy bars. I knew all the parents would love for their kid to have one (especially since it is Sweetest Day :-) ), so I bought a Crunch bar for each of the kids. I asked Brian if I should put a note on it or leave it blank, and of course, he decided to go simple. Well, I woke up this morning feeling determined in my heart to dress up the candy bars a bit. I found a couple clip arts online, enlarged them, and cut & "pasted" them on. For the two parents who helped coach during the games, I bought them a Hershey's Symphony candy bar and just put a little "Thank You" note on it, as you can see from the picture. Neither addition was too taxing or elaborate, but I like the end result - just a tad bit of accessorizing. :-)

Happy Sweetest Day,
Lisa

Family as "Guests"

As I drove by the church, I took note of the message it shouted from its sign: "Treat Your Family As Guests". I have it heard it said many times that we treat those who are the closest to us the worst. Those who live continually with us, day by day, in the same house, taking notice of all of our sins and bearing all of theirs grate us the most, and it can be utterly challenging to love them as we should. As I read the church's sign, all my soul could respond was "ouch". Truly, I fail at treating my household as I would treat my guests. Truly, it is "easy" to welcome friends with a smile, to do my best for them, and to treat them with utmost kindness. However, it is all too "easy" to lose my patience with my family members. May I learn to "Treat My Family As Guests".

Wishing you a home of peace and joy,

Lisa

Soft and Fast Breadsticks!

There's just something therapeutic about making and eating homemade bread...The kneading and shaping of the dough...The tantalizing smell that sifts throughout the house! It's so comforting! Although I can not make a claim to making much homemade bread (even though it is my goal EVERY winter!, eh hem), I do try to make these breadsticks from time to time. With my bread machine, these are really a cinch. You make the dough in the bread machine, cut and shape the breadsticks, bake them, add any garnishes, and voila! Yummy bread that satisfies everyone's tummy! I received this recipe years ago on an email list I was on (Laine's Letters), and it is listed here from her web site with my notes at the bottom. I know you'll enjoy it!

Blessings,

Lisa

Soft and Fast Bread Sticks

1 c. warm water
3 T. brown sugar
1 t. salt
1/4 c. oil
2 1/2 c. bread flour
1/2 c. whole wheat flour (can use all bread flour if desired)
2 1/2 t. yeast

Put all in order in the bread machine. Set to dough cycle. Let rise in the machine. Take out and pat into a semi-long rectangle, (about 9x11). Take a pizza cutter and slice lengthwise into 7 or 8 strips. Take one strip at a time and twist a bit before laying on a greased cookie sheet. Do the rest of the strips putting them an inch away from each other on the pan. Cover and let rise. (I do this in a warm place, they rise fast.) Then cook at 400 degrees for 15 minutes. (If I want thinner breadsticks I cut them thinner and into 14 or 15 strips.) Enjoy!

**Lisa's notes: I cut the dough into about 7 strips lengthwise and then cut the entire rectangle in half so I have about 14 thick breadsticks. After I cook the breadsticks, I usually brush the tops with melted butter and parmesan or cinnamon sugar. In this batch, I made half with parmesan and half with cinnamon sugar.

Persistence

As I was tucking my daughter into bed tonight, she once again asked me to put her mattress pad on her bed. We had washed it recently. It wasn't dry enough when it was time to make her bed, so we put only the sheets back on. Everything seemed to be fine, so I tucked the mattress pad away until we would switch her sheets again. Well, after seeing her brothers get their beds remade with cozy, comfy flannel and fleece sheets, she thought hers should be a bit comfier.

Last night when she went to bed, I pulled out the mattress pad and said, "Let's put it on tomorrow". Well, sure enough, we forgot to do that during the day, and when bed time came, my daughter was asking again, "Mom, can we put on my mattress pad?" Bed time routines were already done.... She was already tucked in... and I was done for the day. I told her we would do it tomorrow. She then again pleaded, "Please, mom, could we just put my mattress pad on top of my sheets even?" Usually at this point, I would react with "I said 'no'", but this time I gave in with a "FINE, but I'm not happy about this". Once we were done, my daughter crawled into bed with a smile on her face and gave me a huge hug and kiss, saying, "Thank you, Mom. I love you". I realized how much my little act of kindness meant to her. In the end, her persistence produced a reward for both of us.

The Bible shows us that the Lord wants us to be persistent with Him. In Luke chapter 11, Jesus gives the story about a man who knocks on his friend's door, asking for bread. The friend will not give the man bread because he is already in bed. However, "because of his persistence he will rise and give him" the bread (v.8).

Also, Jesus gives the parable of the persistent widow in Luke 18. The widow approaches a judge, who (get this!) does not "fear God nor regard man" (v.2), YET he eventually answers the widow's requests for justice. "...Because this widow troubles me I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me" (v.5). "Then the Lord said, 'Hear what the unjust judge said, And shall God not avenge His own elect who cry out day and night to Him, though He bears long with them'?" (v.7)

God is a friend, and He is not like the judge! His character is upright, and we can not weary God with our requests and visits with Him. What does the Bible teach us? It teaches us that God wants fellowship with us and that He wants to pour out blessings upon us. He wants to comfort us. He wants to encourage us. He wants to teach us. If we continue to ask Him, will He not answer from heaven? I know this is something I need to call to remembrance!

May we have the diligence and endurance to spend time with the Lord and be persistent in seeking Him. Truly, we need Him.

Blessings,

Lisa

Roasted Fall Vegetables! Yum!

I made these scrumptious, healthy, economical vegetables the other night! They are great for a side dish, and my kids really liked them. No one usually likes squash, but in this recipe squash is a hit!! With Fall here and our bodies in need of good cold and flu fighting foods, why not try roasting some yummy vegetables?! This recipe makes a huge amount, so you will probably have leftovers. With our family of six and also giving almost half to a friend, I STILL had leftovers. Enjoy!

http://www.marthastewart.com/recipe/roasted-fall-vegetables

Serves 8; Makes about 12 cups

• 2 pounds (about 1 medium) butternut squash, peeled, seeded, and cut into 1 1/2-inch pieces
• 2 pounds red new potatoes (12 to 14), well scrubbed and quartered
• 1 pound medium red onions (about 2 to 3), peeled and quartered
• 1 pound carrots (6 to 8 medium), halved lengthwise, if thick, and cut into 1 1/2-inch lengths
• 4 to 6 garlic cloves, peeled and smashed
• 3 tablespoons olive oil
• Coarse salt and ground pepper

Directions

1. Preheat oven to 450 degrees. Divide vegetables and garlic between two rimmed baking sheets (or line with parchment paper, if desired, for easy cleanup); dividing evenly, toss with oil, 2 teaspoons coarse salt, and 1/4 teaspoon pepper.
2. Roast until vegetables are tender and beginning to brown, 40 to 50 minutes, tossing them and rotating sheets from top to bottom halfway through. Serve hot or at room temperature.

From Everyday Food, October 2006

"Take Time to Be Holy"

Yesterday, I sat down to sing a hymn out of my hymnal. I ran across the title of this one and thought I would give it a shot. Fortunately, I have enough piano knowledge to be able to sit down and plunk out the notes to figure out the melody. I love the words to this hymn, along with its melody. It is very soothing and inspirational. The words speak for themselves, but in essence, the hymn encourages us to focus our hearts on God, spending time with Him, and doing what is right.

Blessings,
Lisa

Listen Here: http://www.letgodbetrue.com/worship/songs/take-time-to-be-holy.htm

Take time to be holy, speak oft with thy Lord;
Abide in Him always, and feed on His Word.
Make friends of God's children, help those who are weak,
Forgetting in nothing His blessing to seek.
Take time to be holy, the world rushes on;
Spend much time in secret, with Jesus alone.
By looking to Jesus, like Him thou shalt be;
Thy friends in thy conduct His likeness shall see.
Take time to be holy, let Him be thy Guide;
And run not before Him, whatever betide.
In joy or in sorrow, still follow the Lord,
And, looking to Jesus, still trust in His Word.
Take time to be holy, be calm in thy soul,
Each thought and each motive beneath His control.
Thus led by His Spirit to fountains of love,
Thou soon shalt be fitted for service above.

Time with Our Children

Recently I received an email of a dialogue between a boy and his mother. It emphasized the boy's desire to spend time with his "mummy". He was saving up money under his pillow so he could buy an hour of his mom's time (equal to the wage she earned at work). This story certainly touched me. It showed the boy's heartfelt desire to be with his mom, yet she was taken up with the cares of life. It reminds me of the story of Martha and Mary, where Jesus told Martha (the busy worker) to look at Mary as the example. Mary was the one spending time with Him.

Life keeps us all very busy. Juggling responsibilities, school, sports events, appointments, and even time with friends and family becomes very difficult and oftentimes, I see myself being impatient with my own children. When they ask for an extra story to be read, for some snuggle time before bed, or for some of *my* precious time, it is easy for me to pull away. However, after I read this story in my email a few days ago, I was encouraged, once again, to take time out for my own children. I want to appreciate them and love on them, and when I do, I always feel rewarded.

Read the story here: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2213603/whats_more_important_in_life_work_think.html?cat=25

Blessings,

Lisa

Welcome!

Welcome to my blog!

For a long time now, I have thought about doing a blog. My mind continually writes and thinks, so I thought this would be a good outlet for me. As I read some of my favorite blogs, I am refreshed and encouraged. I hope you will feel the same as you read my blog, as you sit here in "The Cozy Nook" and share a cup of tea with me.

Blessings to you,

Lisa